I met Marcus about 2 years ago, I first knew him as the flatmate of the guy I was seeing. As any other girl dating a guy, I felt nervous meeting him. I soon found out it wasn’t just Ali’s housemate, it was one of his best friends, and we all know a mate’s approval is important if we wanna keep the guy interested…
So there I was, in their flat, trying my best to impress. About 20 mins in, we were already laughing, bonding, chatting about how french I was and how he loved his ski season as a chef in the french alps. So many things in common already I thought! He’s been to France, and he loves food! SO DO I! This is going great I thought! And Ali’s half hidden smile confirmed it: Marcus and I were going to be friends.
The two years that followed were full of movie nights, delicious dinners, Halloween parties, beers in the park, trips to the supermarket, more parties and of course, much more food.
I wasn’t just Marcus’s friend’s girlfriend. I was basically the third musqueteer, the third housemate, I mean the amount of times Marcus had to shout for more toilet paper… haha. Best buddies if you ask me.
Marcus was the kindest soul, the most generous, the happiest and of course, let’s not forget that crazy contagious laugh that would resonate from his bedroom to ours and would result in the three of us laughing out loud.
I miss him so much already, I miss his roasts, I miss our chats, I miss his movie recommendations.
Three suddenly became two and it doesn’t feel quite right. It never will again. He has left a huge hole in my heart and my life will never really be the same. But I am so grateful for the two amazingly crazy funny years I got with him. He will live through all of us, in our memories, in our stories about him, but most importantly, he will live through every single person he met, because there isn’t one person that knew him that wouldn’t agree with how unforgettable he was.
I love you Marcus, forever